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November 27th, 2006
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So it looks like I'm having a baby tomorrow.


Thursday night, I made Thanksgiving dinner, which turned out well in the end. But I kind of melted down making the mashed potatoes. I'd been stupid and not actually read the directions in the recipe I was using; I just glanced at the list of ingredients and started putting vegetable broth into the bowl of cooked, peeled potatoes. A couple of minutes later I realized that there was definitely too much liquid and read the directions. It turned out that the 2 cups of liquid called for were intended for cooking the potatoes. I realized I'd need to drain that off and then add the soymilk and roasted garlic. And then I turned around to see Ben mashing the potatoes and extra liquid into a glue-y soup. I just started crying, and lay down on the bed with what turned out to be my first real contraction. I was frustrated with Ben for talking on the phone all day (he had LOTS of family to call) and being only minimally helpful with dinner, I was tired and hurting, and I was pissed off that I'd made such a stupid mistake with the potatoes. Ben got off the phone and comforted me for a while, the contraction passed, and then I got up, drained the potatoes, and managed to salvage them (this involved baking them for a little while so they'd dry out slightly). Dinner was nice, and we went to bed happy and well-fed.



I woke up at around 2 in the morning, because I kept feeling tightness in my belly that maybe was contractions. An hour later, I was feeling cramps along with the tightness, and they seemed to be coming every 7-10 minutes. I had a fair bit of bloody show as well. Later on the contractions died out a bit, and I got a few hours of sleep. They came intermittently on Friday, but had pretty much gone away by the afternoon.


Saturday, I played board games with [info]rubrick and others at A's house nearby. No signs of labor.


Sunday, I realized that I might have sprung a slow leak in the amniotic sac, and so I put on a pad before heading out to the grocery store that afternoon. Fortunately, it seemed pretty unnecessary. Later that evening, we were watching a movie at home with [info]treboresque, and I got up to go use the bathroom and felt a bit of a small gush of fluid. Ugh. I wasn't sure at that point whether my membranes were really broken or just leaking a bit, but I was unhappy that it was happening before I'd really started labor. I drank a bunch of water, and we made tacos for dinner, and the leaking seemed to stay slow-to-nonexistant. When I woke up in the middle of the night though, I was definitely leaking a lot of fluid. At that point it was about 1am. Ben and I decided to go back to sleep, since we were both tired and since everything seemed okay with the baby. (The fluid was clear, I was feeling lots of baby movement, and I'd tested negative for Group B Strep two weeks ago.)



We slept in a bit this morning, and Ben emailed his work to let them know that I seemed to be starting labor and that he wouldn't be in. We talked about what to do and decided to take a long walk up Albany Hill to see if that might help get labor started. (I was afraid to go into the hospital before starting labor because I really didn't want to be induced.) It was a nice walk, despite us getting rained on a bit. I was getting tightness that might've been contractions, but it never got to the point of being painful or seeming like real labor. We headed home, ate some lunch, did a load of laundry, and tried some nipple stimulation. That didn't start labor either. I keep hearing that sex is good for starting labor, but since my membranes were definitely ruptured (I was leaking the whole time and drinking a lot of Gatorade and water to stay hydrated), I didn't want to risk infection. By late afternoon, I was still leaking quite a bit, and I didn't seem to have started labor at all. I didn't have a fever, and the baby was still moving sometimes (but not especially active), but at this point I was starting to get nervous and so we called the doctor's office.


The doctor I've been seeing happened to be the on-call doctor for her practice this evening, and she recommended that we go into the hospital to confirm that my membranes were broken and do a non-stress test to check on the baby. Since it was rush hour and Ben isn't a very experienced driver, we decided to take BART and the shuttle to the hospital. That worked really well. We went up to L&D triage and got there at the same time as another pregnant woman whose water had also broken before the onset of labor. Since she was only at 37 weeks and I'm at 38.5, she got checked out first. The nurse that did my exam was very nice, and it looked like everything was fine. I got hooked up to a blood pressure cuff and an external fetal monitor. My blood pressure was high at first, but normal 15 minutes later, I was indeed leaking amniotic fluid, I had no signs of infection, and the baby was doing great (heartrate of about 140 with good accelerations). I was also having contractions according to the monitor - they just weren't very strong-feeling or painful. She talked to my doctor on the phone, and I'm supposed to call in at 6am tomorrow and then head into the hospital. If I haven't gone into labor on my own at that point, I'm probably going to be induced.


I'm obviously really hoping to go into labor on my own tonight. In either case though, it seems likely that I'm having a baby tomorrow. Any advice on getting labor started or on dealing with an induction would be appreciated.

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From:[info]erinmdmd
Date:November 28th, 2006 06:47 am (UTC)
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Just so you know- your membranes can reseal. You are doing everything right- keep everything away from your vagina and cervix (prevent infection) and stay super hydrated. Vit C can help ward off infection as well, though the best defense is to not touch and introduce bacteria.

I wish you the best of luck in birthing!!
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From:[info]phyxius
Date:November 28th, 2006 07:07 am (UTC)
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Yay! Hope it continues smoothly. :)
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From:[info]jilflirt
Date:November 28th, 2006 07:07 am (UTC)
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Wow! Best of luck!
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From:[info]qarin
Date:November 28th, 2006 07:46 am (UTC)
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Rest as best you can! My guess is that you're going to go into labor on your own before anyone can poke anything into you tomorrow.
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From:[info]kryscat
Date:November 28th, 2006 10:53 am (UTC)
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My water broke early (at 36/6), but I *had* tested positive for the Group B Strep, so there's only so long one ought to wait. I did lots of laps around the L&D ward, hoping the walking would make the contractions pick up (I was having them, but not terribly regularly or strongly). No dice. So I let them give me some pitocin. Watch the numbers on the IV drip machine thingie. I wanted to try a low dosage of pitocin, and only ramp it up if I didn't progress. We told the nurse this, she agreed (we thought), and then she proceeded to set the machine to automatically increase the dosage every 20 minutes. Luckily Rob noticed and we all ganged up on the nurse to make her set it to stay at a low dose (Rob might remember the numbers, but I was a bit distracted at the time). The nurse actually said, "but it won't *do* anything!" in this whiney tone of voice, before complying. Turned out that I only needed a jump start from the pitocin, and then progressed quickly after that. Glad that we caught it, but definitely pay attention (or have Ben do it).

Best of luck! Hope you have the birth that you want. C'mon E! We're all rooting for you!
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From:[info]anemone
Date:November 28th, 2006 12:58 pm (UTC)
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LABOR LABOR LABOR LABOR. (That was me telling your baby and your body to start labor.) (Somehow, though, I don't think vibing from across the country is a proven method of jumpstarting labor.)

(Also, you might try an orgasm w/o penetration.)

Best wishes! And...induced or not, it's still pretty damn exciting!
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From:[info]hukuma
Date:November 28th, 2006 01:42 pm (UTC)
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Wow! I have no advice, but good luck! I hope to see photos of E in your next post.
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From:[info]slipjig
Date:November 28th, 2006 01:57 pm (UTC)
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*squee!*
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From:[info]darcydodo
Date:November 28th, 2006 03:08 pm (UTC)
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How exciting! I'm sending thoughts for everything going well.
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From:[info]jedusor
Date:November 28th, 2006 03:25 pm (UTC)
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Good luck! :)
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From:[info]namazu
Date:November 28th, 2006 03:29 pm (UTC)
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Hooray! I hope the labor-initiation process will hurry up for you, and that you will be as comfortable (in all senses) as possible throughout the labor and delivery. And an advance welcome to Baby Sittleton - or Middler - or whatever! :)
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From:[info]catamorphism
Date:November 28th, 2006 04:00 pm (UTC)
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Good luck!
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From:[info]sbtorpey
Date:November 28th, 2006 04:23 pm (UTC)
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I'm just seeing your post now, so by the time you read this comment it will probably be well after E is born, but I'm sending you and E and Ben much love from 3000 miles away.

Hugs!
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From:[info]janisfan
Date:November 28th, 2006 04:50 pm (UTC)
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I second this one!
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From:[info]zdamiana
Date:November 28th, 2006 05:06 pm (UTC)
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I just consulted with my mom - it sounds like you are doing everything right. She says, "eat, drink, get plenty of rest at night, be active during the day, try to relax and go with the flow." (ie not be too worried and disappointed by the prospect of a possible induction - stress arrests labor) Probably exactly what you are hearing from your own providers.

Best of luck! You'll do great.
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From:[info]zdamiana
Date:November 28th, 2006 05:15 pm (UTC)
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Oops - I realized after I posted this that you're probably already there, in labor.

The best of luck and you'll do great bit still applies, of course.

From:[info]madeoutofpeople
Date:November 28th, 2006 05:14 pm (UTC)

Woo hoo!

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Good luck with the labor--hope it goes smoothly and wonderfully and all that sort of thing.
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From:[info]amanipanda
Date:November 28th, 2006 05:17 pm (UTC)
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Congratulations! I hope that all goes well tomorrow!
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From:[info]dancingyel
Date:November 28th, 2006 05:55 pm (UTC)
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good luck! that's so exciting!
From:(Anonymous)
Date:November 28th, 2006 06:47 pm (UTC)
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Btw, the 28th is the birthday of my youngest brother and my aunt in Norway.
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From:[info]crayonbeam
Date:November 28th, 2006 07:27 pm (UTC)
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wow!

*sending powerful vibes your way!*
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From:[info]paisleychick
Date:November 28th, 2006 10:26 pm (UTC)
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Good luck & I hope everything goes well.
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From:[info]smws
Date:November 29th, 2006 12:36 am (UTC)

Wow!

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Good luck!
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From:[info]threadwalker
Date:November 29th, 2006 01:23 am (UTC)
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Wishing you luck!
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From:[info]owens888
Date:November 29th, 2006 02:32 am (UTC)
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Good luck!
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From:[info]chimerically
Date:November 29th, 2006 02:41 am (UTC)
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Best of luck! How exciting!
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From:[info]hackwrth
Date:November 29th, 2006 05:28 am (UTC)
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I hope everything went well!
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From:[info]joeshlabotnik
Date:November 29th, 2006 06:11 pm (UTC)
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Hopefully you're through it all by now!
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From:[info]kragen
Date:November 29th, 2006 11:22 pm (UTC)
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I hadn't been reading LJ, so didn't know about this. Congratulations! Jessie IMed to let me know the baby had been born at 8 lbs. 1 oz.
From:(Anonymous)
Date:December 1st, 2006 07:28 am (UTC)
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8 pounds 7 ounces, actually!
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From:[info]cyt
Date:November 30th, 2006 07:21 am (UTC)
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yay! wow... i missed days of LJ! congrats!! :D
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From:[info]tinysecrets19
Date:March 29th, 2007 06:32 pm (UTC)
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I know I'm late on reading this story but Yes, you sound like you knew what you were doing and handled it well...I can't wait to read the rest!!!
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